KEY POINTS

• Family Dispute Resolution Mediator Donovan Nufable offers a balanced perspective on utang na loob. He explains, utang na loob often feels like lingering guilt, and sometimes family members use it.
• Utang na loob is deeply embedded in Filipino culture and is considered one of its core values. It reflects the importance of reciprocity, gratitude, and mutual support in Filipino society. Its origins can be traced back to the pre-colonial period, where social and familial bonds were highly valued in the communal living systems of early Filipino communities.
• Filipinos in Australia shared their thoughts, revealing divided opinions on the matter. Some say that children are not obligated to repay utang na loob because parenthood is a decision made by the parents themselves. On the other hand, others believe that helping one’s parents should stem from love and respect, especially during times of need.